Monday, November 1, 2010

To Clarify . . .

After having been told by several people that they were told I “fired” my mother, I would like to clarify something. I did not “fire” my mother from helping us out. She told me that she was upset by my parenting choices, the shows I was watching on TV, the movies I watch, and the clothes I let my children wear, among other things. I told her that as I am now an adult, living in my own house, Rob and I were going to continue to make the choices we felt were best for our family. We would love to maintain a relationship with her; however we were not going to change our choices merely because she disagreed with them. She told me if I did not choose to change my choices, that she was no longer comfortable helping out and left.

3 comments:

Bryner Family said...

Yikes! Sorry about that. It's a hard time to lose some much needed help. :( Hope you guys can work it out.

mamacatKS said...

Wow! :( wow... I admire you for standing by your beliefs!

Wendy said...

Wow... I guess I missed some of what went on to bring this about.

You sure have a lot to deal with. And hopefully something can be worked out and your relationship with her can continue.

I wish I was close enough to come and "hang" out with you!! I sure miss those nights when Rob and Chris were busy working at Subway, and we'd hang out and have a GNO almost every night.

My how time has flown.