I started this on Friday, but we didn't get it done that day, so the title isn't exactly accurate. For the record, we met on Saturday, May 17th, 1997.
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Rob: I woke up one morning and decided to go to Ricks College, on a whim.
Somehow, everything fell into place for me to be able to leave my job,
get housing, and get accepted to Ricks; everything came together perfectly. I didn't understand why at the time.
Laney: I was living in Rexburg, ID, attending Ricks College. It was a Saturday night. My roommates and I decided to call some friends of ours and see if they wanted to hang out that evening. Unbeknownst to me, Rob had moved into that apartment the day before.
I called the apartment and Rob answered the phone. I asked who it was. When he replied "Rob", I thought I had dialed the wrong number by mistake and had instead called another apartment of guys that we knew, as a Rob lived there. After talking to him for a few minutes, I figured out that I had, in fact, called the correct apartment and was talking to someone I didn't know. I was very embarrassed.
Rob: This very friendly girl called. I remember thinking "Man, these Idahoans are nice people". But then I realized she must have thought I was someone else. There was something about her voice that I recognized, that I knew. I knew I had to meet her.
Laney: Rob passed the phone off to his roommate, Dave. I asked Dave to apologize to Rob and tell him I thought I had been talking to someone else. Instead, Dave told Rob I thought he sounded cute. That embarrassed me even more, but I extended our invitation. Dave and Rob talked in Portuguese for a few minutes (Dave had served his mission in Portugal and Rob served his in Brazil), then they said they would come over.
Rob: Dave asked if I wanted to go over. I asked him what sort of girl Laney was. He said she was smart, but opinionated. Not his type. She sounded even more intriguing. We had been invited over to go hang out at another girl's apartment that night, but I wanted to meet the girl on the phone. We decided we would go to Laney's apartment first and then if we got bored, we'd head over to the other girl's apartment.
Laney: I got off the phone and told my roommates the guys were coming over and that they had a new roommate. I jokingly announced that if the new guy was cute, I called dibs.
Rob: I tried to resist building an image in my mind of what this girl would look like. Her voice just sounded so different: different from anything I had ever heard. I wanted to see her, but was trying not to get my hopes up.
Laney: They walked in and he didn't seem my type. He was wearing an old t-shirt, jeans with holes in the knees, and work boots. Not that I had anything against outfits like that, but the guys I liked usually wore things like polo shirts and dockers. Plus he was really quiet. He sat down next to me and I tried to talk to him, but he barely answered.
Rob: Right when I walked through the door, I knew who she was without a word being said. I knew she was the girl I was going to marry. My next thought was 'I must be crazy; things like this don't happen'. But I couldn't take my eyes off her. I knew she was the one. She was the most beautiful girl I had ever seen. It felt like that scene from "Big Fish" when he sees the girl he's going to marry. Time froze. I wanted to talk with her, but I was too tongue-tied. She was too beautiful. I wondered what was wrong with her; there had to be something off because if a girl is that perfect in the looks department, something else had to be missing. But I've never found anything. As the night went on, I started realizing just how intelligent she was. I hadn't ever met a girl that I could really talk to about intellectual things before.
Laney: I gave up trying to talk to him. We decided to play a game called "Rambo". It's basically a big game of hide and seek. The players pair up. One pair gets in a car and the others are on foot. Those on foot try to make it from one location to another without being seen by the pair in the car. We decided to go from our apartment to theirs.
Rob and my roommate Becca were the only ones with cars. We tried to decide who should be in the car. We decided Rob should drive so his car ended up at his apartment. We couldn't decide who should go with him though. Rob finally said "why don't you just come with me?" I thought he was tired of the process and just wanted to get started, so I turned to Becca and suggested she go with him.
Rob: When she suggested her roommate go with me, I thought I had found the flaw. She was a jerk. I thought she had deliberately decided she didn't want to go with me.
Laney: My partner Debbie and I had a blast hiding under bushes and belly crawling across grassy spaces to get to Rob's apartment. When we got there an hour later, covered in dirt and leaves, we discovered that Rob and Becca drove around for ten minutes, then gave up and went to Rob's apartment.
Rob: When she came in the door, I was taken away by just how beautiful she was. Not just looks, but her personality. I decided I had to try something again to get a spark going. We were standing in a doorway across from each other. I saw a leaf in her hair. I reached over and pulled it out and literally felt an electric spark.
Laney: It seemed like everything stopped for a minute. Everyone seemed to stop talking and were looking at us. I don't know if that was just me, or if they felt it too. I didn't know what it was though, so I sort of brushed it off and kept talking.
Rob: I realized there was something there beyond what I understood. I had to get to know her. I had to try something. The girls decided to walk home, so I walked home with them. As we were walking, we began to talk. We talked for the next three hours. I showed her some jiu-jitsu moves in her apartment. The two of us looked up and realized that everyone else in the room was silently watching us. I was willing to do everything I could, anything I could, just to keep talking to her. As Dave and I walked out the door when we finally left, I heard her roommates screaming and giggling. But I didn't care. I was going to marry her. As Dave and I walked home, I said "I think I like her." His response was a very sarcastic "You think?"
The next day I was hoping it wasn't a fluke. I wanted to go back over and see if there was something there. I was hoping there was. She and her roommates invited us over for dinner. Even thought it was only the next day, it felt like I had been gone from her for a year. She was everything I had remembered and more. This was great! I knew I wanted more.
Laney: I really enjoyed talking with Rob the night before. We seemed to be able to talk and talk about anything and never get bored. I was nervous to see him again though. Guys didn't usually like me and I was afraid he would lose interest. I didn't want to get my hopes up.
After dinner, Rob's roommates were going to a meeting. Rob mentioned he didn't want to go, but since he had just gotten to Rexburg, he didn't have anything else to do. I offered to go on a walk with him later if he wanted. He responded with "Ok, go change. I'll wait outside." I didn't mean we'd go at that moment, but since he was waiting for me, I went and changed out of my church clothes.
Rob: I knew in order for us to be able to make any type of connection, I had to get her away from everyone else. I was trying to figure out how to do this without coming across as creepy or desperate. I decided just to throw everything in on this gamble and get her alone as best I could. Once she offered to walk with me, I jumped at that.
Again, we talked for hours. I knew she was the one.
Laney: I found myself telling him things I had never told anyone before. It was so odd; we had just met the day before, but somehow I knew him better than I had ever known anyone. I felt like I could tell him anything and he would understand.
We ended up on some bleachers at a park. I admitted I hadn't ever kissed anyone before. He said he wouldn't mind being the guy who gave me my first kiss. But he didn't. At least not then.
Rob: I knew I wanted to kiss her right then, but I was too scared. How do you kiss the most beautiful woman in the world?
Laney: The sun went down and the mosquitoes came out. I said I'd better be getting home. Rob asked if I wanted to go for a drive with him instead.
Rob: I just had to keep spending time with her. I didn't want to let her go. We started driving, but I had no idea where to go. So we drove and talked. And I kept desperately finding out a way to kiss her.
Laney: We ended up on the dirt roads
out by the sand dunes. He was being really quiet, so I asked what he was thinking.
Rob: I knew I wanted to kiss her, but I realized I was going to have to have help. Some mercy from her. She asked what I was thinking. I said "I was just thinking about kissing you".
She responded "Why don't you stop thinking about it and just do it". Three hours later we headed home :)
The next day, Monday, I was waiting for her when she got home from work/school. I just couldn't be away from her. We talked and talked. I took her out to dinner at Arby's because I didn't want to stop talking. We drove around for a while. We just kept talking and talking and talking. I just couldn't get enough of her. We were parked on top of a hill overlooking the city and I knew I had to ask her to marry me. I couldn't believe I had just said what I said to her. I thought I was crazy. Somehow she said yes.
I would have married her the next day if I could, but it took us thirteen weeks to get married. From then on, life has been good.