We are now almost three weeks into the school year. The transition seemed easier this year than it has in years past. Beth loves being in school and Jack loves spending time with just Eva and me every day. He especially loves shopping at Kroger as they have carts with cars on the front and tvs in the little cars sponsored by Disney, so the parent can choose from a selection of Disney kid shows for the kids to watch. Jack and I have been working each day on preschool material. We bought a preschool workbook and he and I do two pages a day out of that. We are currently focusing on colors and shapes. Following that, we get on the computer and using starfall.com learn about two letters. We spend a week learning those two letters, then switch to the next two. I plan to up his worksheets to 3-5 a day at some point, but we're working up to that :)
This is the first time I have had to actually teach one of our children. When I worked with the girls, it seemed like all I had to do was point them in the right direction and they took off running. I don't know if it's due to differences between boys and girls or differences in the kids' personalities - I suppose it's probably a combination of the two. On top of that, Jack will be starting kindergarten younger than any of the girls did as his birthday is in August (granted Megan's birthday is only 2 weeks before Jack's, but she taught herself to read at age 3, so I never had to do any preschool prep with her - she was doing 2nd grade work in kindergarten). We've talked about possibly holding him back, especially as he's so small (at his last check up he was in the 5th percentile for weight and height). We'll have to see when we get closer to the end of the year. I'm very glad that he is our fourth and that there are so many years between him and Eva. It gives me the opportunity to give him so much personal attention. What kid doesn't learn faster sitting on someone's lap?
I love watching the interactions between Jack and Eva. They really are best friends :) When we drive somewhere Jack sits in Beth's booster next to Eva's carseat and the two of them laugh and laugh together. The girls are playing better together now and better with Jack. Since they are in school for half the day, they miss each other and fight a lot less when they're home :) Jack has loved having the freedom to sleep where he wants on school nights. The past few nights he's slept downstairs next to Simon's crate on the orange mat Rob used to sleep on when he was a child.
Rob and I have worked out a system that works perfectly for us. I stay up late doing homework and get up with Eva and the other kids if they need it. Rob gets up early in the morning and gets the older girls off to school. I pack their lunches the night before if they're not buying them - they get to pick. They've all actually told me that they like bringing lunch better than buying it because of the surprises I put in their lunch boxes. I try to always put a small note or a Hershey's kiss or some other small treat :) The girls lay out their shoes and have their backpacks and water bottles ready the night before. They pick out their clothes for the next day too (I double check and make sure they're ok before I go to bed). I put out a bowl of dry cereal for Jack with a spoon and put a cup of apple juice in the fridge. Rob pours out a small cup of milk that Jack pours into his cereal when he's ready to eat. This allows Eva and I to sleep in for an extra hour or two if we need it :)
Our schedules are super busy, but we seem to be finding a good balance and combining things as much as possible. Kylie has soccer practice twice a week, so we load the whole family up on those nights and all go. The other kids get to play on the playgrounds (we stay for a bit after Kylie's practices are over so she gets to play too) and Rob, Eva and I exercise by walking around the playgrounds, allowing us to spend time together, work out, and get the kids out of the house :)
Beth is loving ballet! We get to watch a short performance next week as they are having "princess day", so I should have a chance to take some photos then. She is doing really well in school as well. For some reason she has decided she needs to wear dresses to school each day. I told her she could wear shorts or pants if she preferred, but she told me if she did that then her friends wouldn't recognize her. I didn't know we had so many dresses in her size! She has become BFFs (best friends forever) with a little girl named Maia who she met at church. Maia is not in her kindergarten class, but is at the same school, so they get to play together at recess. Maia had Beth over to play last week and is coming over to our house tomorrow after school.
Kylie is doing super well at soccer. She's on the same team as last year, the Pink Panthers, and they let her stay goalie. She is awesome at it! They won their last game 4-2 against a team that beat them every time they played them last spring. Kylie is doing well in school and is improving her reading skills. Her favorite classes this year are math, recess, and PE. She, Megan, and Beth also love music class and sing the songs they learn every time we're in the car. "Down by the Bay" is a favorite and the girls love coming up with silly rhymes for it.
Megan is reading as much as Rob and I do, which we love :) She finished "The Lightning Thief" (which I think is about 350 pgs) in just a few hours. All of her friends from previous years of school are in different classes, so she's struggling a bit socially, but she spend a lot of time on the phone with her best friend Paula after school. We've started paying her 10 cents for every 100 that she brings home in her weekly assignment folder and that seems to be helping motivate her to work harder at school. She and I will be starting our sewing classes next week. She is a wonderful little mini-babysitter and loves giving Eva baths and changing her diaper.
Rob and I are doing well. He has started playing basketball with some guys from church and is really enjoying it. Both of us (and Eva) have been fighting a cold for the past week or two. It kind of knocked both of us off our feet, but we're starting to feel better. My summer quarter ends tomorrow, although I turned in my last assignment yesterday, so I'm done! I haven't gotten my grade on my final paper yet, but as long as I get at least a 70 on it, I should have an A in the class :) This paper is based on three others I did and the grades I got on those include 94, 95 and 100, and I tried to fix the things I lost points on, so I'm pretty sure I have an A! At church Rob is now working with the missionaries again and I am one of two leaders over the 8-9 year old girls activity group. We have activities twice a month. Megan is in that group, so I get to spend some extra time with her!
Eva is now 10 months old! I can't believe it's already been 10 months since her birth, but on the other hand it feels like she's been with us forever :) She's been having some trouble sleeping due to the cold and teething (I think). Sometimes when I'm super tired and she's still fussing I start getting frustrated. All I have to do is think about how hard it was to get her here and how blessed we are that she's healthy and my frustration disappears.
Facebook has a feature that shows you your status updates from that day a year ago. Seeing them has brought back a lot of memories from that time. I remember waking up in the middle of the night shaking from the medicine they had me on. Rob would wake up and hold me to stop the shaking. I remember all the times I started going into labor and we would somehow be able to stop the contractions. I look at Eva though and every second was worth it! We were so blessed to have the support we had though! Beca was there a million times, Allison was there every time I needed to talk, Meredith and Crysta walked the girls home from school for almost three months, Brittney watched the kids and cleaned the house all summer, we had so many friends bring over dinner or come over and clean or help somehow. I don't know how we would have done it without each of you!
Anyway, a few photos from this week ~
Kylie dressed as "people from before" - I'm guessing Romans? Maybe combined with Egyptians?

It's been so hot here that I haven't let the kids play outside much. Jack really wanted to color with chalk the other day, so I let him and Eva decorate the floor of our garage. Jack decided my tires needed decorating as well ~

Eva ate the chalk rather than coloring with it ~


Jack and Eva swinging together at the playground last night during Kylie's soccer practice ~